Had to call the bank (HSBC) yesterday. Did all the security clearances and stuff. Extra ones cos I don't call often and had forgotten most super secret codes.

"Is it Miss or Mrs?"

"Uh.. Dr."

"Okay then. Next we just need to... can I call you Miss or Mrs?"

"............ you can call me Amy?"

The operative did proceed to call me Amy after that, but I'm even in the banks records as Dr (finally). Anyway can we just normalise gender neutral and not-marital-status-related honorifics please? Or just like, names. Which is what they're for.

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